mistressofmuses: A smiling white dandelion seedhead says "blow me," after which the seeds are scattered. (blow me)
Originally I wrote this up a week or two ago and then didn't get around to posting it. But it's still bugging me, so... here we are!

Rant about fandom purity police... )
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Update on the birth certificate/driver license Situation:
We did finally hear back from Alex's friend; apparently it's taken several trips to the courthouse to try and find the correct record. Possibly due to it being a fairly old record (purely speculation on my part, but I assume it's pre-digitization, and it wouldn't surprise me if it were buried in some file box in a storage room that hasn't been organized in a couple decades.) It still would have been nice for him to maybe... call and let us know that this wasn't going to be done by the date we were aiming for, but at least we now have... sort of... an idea of what's going on. Makes me even gladder it didn't come down to flying one of us out there to try and do this in person, since if it's taken several days, that would have been a serious problem when we were trying to check flights with the intent to fly in and out in a one or two days.
 
Today was the last time I'll see my manager from the field office I work at. :( There was a really dumb game of manager musical chairs about six months ago, which moved my manager to a different location, and the Denver manager to my office. While I missed my first manager, I also liked the woman who came here from Denver, but she put in her two weeks last weekend, and her last day will be mid-week. I'm happy for her, because she'll ditch the center manager stress and get time to focus on her degree, but I'll still miss her, and it's a complete unknown for who will replace her. (Though a part of me is just very slightly laughing at the panic this is setting off... they've made several Bad Choices in hiring lately (which could be a post in and of itself), some of which were what forced me from my previous position to my new one without any say in the matter. While I'm happy with where I'm at now, it's still just a tiny bit satisfying to watch them reap what they've sown, lol. I don't pretend to have completely gotten rid of my petty streak.)
 
Other than that... I'm glad for it being time to "Spring Forward". It being light after I get off of work is always a better part of the year. It's been that way for a few weeks now, but it's still often sunset or after by the time I actually get home, so it'll be nice to have a bit more daylight during non-working hours. And it gives me hope for an end to the snow-mud cycle, haha.
 
I've completely failed to realize it's already MARCH 9TH somehow, multiple times, causing brief misunderstandings when scheduling people. Part two of that, holy fucking shit, my birthday is Monday, and I *didn't even realize it*. Like, I knew it was soon, but I keep feeling like it's a week away, at least.
 
And my "weekend" was actually really nice the last couple days. I managed to spend my leisure time pretty well, despite the usual executive dysfunction that haunts my every waking moment. I watched a horror movie (maybe I'll review it?!) and read, and played a video game, and actually got a lot of words down on my current silly fanfic thing. (Two days in a row of over 1000 words! Close to 3000 for the week!) So I felt pretty good about it.
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Well, the Maryland friend seems to have flaked, and we didn't get the form Alex needed to get his birth certificate in order to get his license transferred. At this point we can't even fly out there to do it... because he no longer has a valid ID. We can hope to hear from the friend soon, like perhaps it was just delayed in the mail, and then go through the process, which hopefully won't be more difficult now that the MD license is expired, but I don't know. If they require him to retest for a permit and then his license, that tends to book out six to eight weeks. That's half of my company's business is people paying us to do the drive tests sooner. So maybe we'll just shell out the $80 to take it here, lol. (Pretty sure since we aren't married, he doesn't get a break on the price through me.)
So all of this frustration is certainly not the best way to spend a birthday that Alex has ever had, ugh. And we got dinner, but it seems to have disagreed with him. Crapass birthday. :/
 
In another kind of weird note, I realized just HOW different having an apartment is than living in the car. Not that it isn't completely obvious every day, but it really struck me today. March so far has been record-breakingly cold in Colorado. Lots of below zero temps, with news articles heralding the fact that it was the coldest March day (not just for the date, but for the whole month) in 139 years. I don't like the cold, and I basically never make that a secret, lol. But as annoying as it is when I have to walk across a parking lot or the like to run errands, I haven't noticed the cold nearly as much as I thought I would. And it drove home how comparatively lucky I am this winter as compared to last. I go from my climate-controlled apartment to the car to my climate-controlled office and back. So I don't HAVE to feel the cold so strongly and constantly now. Last year, we had to loiter in a Starbucks as late as they were open and then spend the night in a freezing car, trying to stay warm but not risk running the car too much and running out of gas or drawing attention, because sleeping in a car overnight is illegal.
 
I'm continually grateful that we're in the position we're in now, even as I'm constantly terrified that it will be taken away. (This is apparently very common for people who have been without housing and then get it, and I know Alex has a lot of anxiety around it.) I'm always scared something will happen to take this away from us. In theory, we are "safe" for another six months, and then it's time to renew the lease. We should still be all right after that, but I'm still afraid they'll change their requirements, or decide there's been some mistake and we have to leave... I don't know when or if that anxiety will ever go away. It's been about six months, but we were homeless for five+ years. This got more introspectively whingey than I wanted it to, haha.

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