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Ophelia II wishes you a lovely Halloween, the day on which she is most festive. :)

(She is VERY ROUND. The first time I fed her, I gave her two crickets and she caught one. This time I figured I'd give her three in the hopes she'd eat two, and instead she caught all three within about forty minutes.)

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Our Halloween was... a bit depressingly lowkey. I took this week off of work specifically because it's Halloween week, my favorite holiday, but... we had errands to run, and Alex didn't feel well. I watched Over the Garden Wall, which is my must-watch for the holiday, though Alex fell asleep. I think part of the problem was me and my mood - I just felt mildly irritable all day, in a way that I wanted to shake, but struggled to. We had a good dinner, and our Halloween candy (despite no trick-or-treating in the building), and are watching a horror movie, so it's not a total loss.

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I tried again to really appreciate the season, and met with mixed results. I've tried most years to do sort of an "October Devotional," where I attempt to do something every day of the month that lets me appreciate the autumn season in general and Halloween in particular. It's an attempt to be mindful, and to keep the season from disappearing as quickly as it usually seems to. This year we were gifted an extremely long and beautiful fall. We only had a handful of particularly cold days, with most days still being pleasantly warm. The leaves have been really pretty (and we even have some that are still green!) I'll take that over the years where an early freeze kills everything off before the season even starts.

There were definitely many days where I didn't have any particular moments of enjoyment or attention, but probably more days than not where I did.

For some big things: we visited Hudson Gardens, where we got to look at all their carved pumpkins; we went out to view the Northern Lights; I caught and adopted Ophelia II from my mom's house; we went up to Estes Park, in part for Bella's FastCAT competition, but also enjoyed the beautiful fall weather and scenery; we got to view the comet; we went to the Butterfly Pavilion, and got to see their annual spider exhibit; we went to a haunted house.

More "medium" things: we went out to see a horror movie (Smile 2); we watched some horror series (American Horror Stories and Archive 81); I've been rereading The Southern Reach books, which are among my favorite horror media; we went on other smaller walks through the local park, which has had beautiful leaves this year; Alex and I made a cute little spider-themed "wreath", though this year the apartment sent out a nastygram telling us we aren't allowed to decorate our doors the way we usually do, so no one else got to see it; I did buy at least some Halloween type stuff for myself (a cute bat-shaped faux-neon light, a fluffy blanket, a pair of plushies).

For small things on some days: I made myself a lot of pumpkin spice chais to bring with me to work; I wore Halloween-themed socks; I used Halloween- or fall-themed layouts in my habit tracker.

I didn't feel as engaged with the season as I'd hoped, but it wasn't a loss either. It was still a nice October.
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Last week Alex and I went back to Hudson Gardens, a free botanical garden. We went back in the spring, but at the time it was a little too early for a lot of the stuff we wanted to see. This time we were too late! But it was nice to go anyway.

The gardens are doing a seasonal event, "The Magic of the Jack-o-Lanterns" or something to that effect. It's a paid, ticketed event at night, but you can walk through the setup during the day as part of the regular free admission.

The Halloween setup is pretty cool - tons of carved (foam) pumpkins. (But pretty good realistic fake pumpkins!) Unfortunately, it does block a couple areas of the garden off even more than they already were. (This year they've roped some sections off for reseeding and to reestablish areas that have been eroded. I can't be mad about that, but it's sad not to be able to get to all the usual things. The event stuff ropes some of the things like the beehives off entirely, so you can't approach them at all.)

We were too late for some of the stuff I'd hoped to see, like the water lilies (which we were too early for in the spring), but the roses were having a fantastic second bloom! The single frost we had last month seems to have done away with the Japanese beetles that were devouring them earlier in the year, so they were doing great now!


Always love bees on flowers.


I also really liked this rose. The picture only sort of does justice to just how enormous it was!

Ten more below the cut: )

And there were the pumpkins! Like I mentioned above, they are foam pumpkins rather than real ones. They're good fakes, and it makes sense. If you want the displays to last the whole month, real ones certainly wouldn't!

Lots of the displays were things like pop culture figures that I didn't really care about too much, but some of them were really neat.


Edgar Allan Poe was certainly an appropriate choice, imo.

Eleven more below the cut: )
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Starting last year (as far as I know), the Butterfly Pavilion has done a seasonal display of spiders for Halloween. For the month of October they have more spiders on display in all of their various sections, including orbweavers in an open-air area that you can walk through to get up close to them.

The snow from the previous couple of days had dampened some of my Halloween enthusiasm, but this was one of the things we'd hoped to do for the holiday, and I'm glad we did!


A favorite of the tarantulas for the day, a type of Indian ornamental. Such yellow knees! Such fuzzy toes!


Green-bottle blue tarantula. Always a favorite, so colorful!

Eight more spiders below the cut: )

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Happy Halloween to everyone!

I hope it was a day of all the right number of spooks and spoops and was spent doing wonderful things.

We did go see an exhibit of spiders at the invertebrate zoo yesterday, which felt nicely seasonal.

Today was a bit less so, though we went to a couple local antique malls because that was what Alex wanted to do. That was fun, even if it didn't feel abundantly Halloween-ish.
We did not go out to the concert tonight, which I'm mildly sad about, but mostly relieved. I'm tired as it is!

We got a pizza and ate some Halloween candy and watched The Exorcist, so that feels appropriate, at least.

(I also made myself an "everything that needs to get done in order to be caught up on things" list and it is... dismaying, to say the least. True Halloween scares!)
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I almost completely managed to forget that I gave myself a gift:

I requested Wednesday off, in order to give myself a three-day weekend for Halloween.

At the time, I'd hoped either I'd come up with some excellent Halloween plan that could sprawl intentionally into a third day, OR I'd hoped that I would forget about it and be pleasantly surprised. It has been the latter!

I definitely didn't get to enjoy October quite the way I'd hoped to. It went by extremely fast, and mainly in a blur of... just ordinary things. We really did have a lovely month weather-wise, and the colors were beautiful. Unfortunately, I'd kinda banked on spending this last weekend (my Monday/Tuesday) getting all my yay! Halloween! feelings/plans out, and the snow the last two days has definitely dampened that. (We wound up with maybe... six or seven inches of snow? Not as much as threatened, but not as little as hoped, and WAY too much for the first snow of the season.)

We're upsettingly lacking a plan for what to DO for Halloween over the next couple of days.

It won't be the haunted corn maze: their last night was tonight, and I wouldn't be surprised if they closed last night and tonight anyway. The corn maze is always fun, plus has the nostalgia factor of having been where Alex and I went for our first official date when he came out to visit me the first time. But it was also *better* back then, lol. It's gotten a lot more expensive and crowded and those more expensive tickets let you access a lot less than they used to.

We might go to a haunted house, though I'd hoped to do one earlier in the month so it'd be less crowded. One of the bigger ones is open through the end of the week, so maybe Wednesday to keep the spoops going, but avoiding the Halloween-day crowds?

I think tomorrow we'll maybe go to the Butterfly Pavilion again, since in October they have their "Spiders of the World" exhibits, and we've only got a couple days left to see them this year. It's also indoors, which will be nice, since it's supposed to still be really cold.

I also need to do my annual "Over the Garden Wall" watch. I'm dismayed that I've made it this far into the month and haven't done it yet.

Do we carve a pumpkin? We'll have to go BUY a pumpkin in order to do that, but maybe.

Do we make some sort of silly Halloween baked good? Do we go to a horror movie or two just like a normal Tuesday for us? There's a goth club concert, but that sounds a bit like the bad kind of exhausting, and it's at the club where drinks are $20+. We can car-bar/pre-game it, but still, I'm not even sure how much tickets are.

I will be very upset with myself if we do NOTHING for Halloween, because it IS my favorite fucking holiday, but the snow has pretty much killed my seasonal enjoyment... I'm hoping enthusiasm and inspiration somehow yet strike!

(Of course, it'd also probably be a good idea for me to spend my extra day DOING ALL THE THINGS I'm struggling to catch up on.)
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I carved a pumpkin. :)


Pattern picked out by Alex - spooky ghosts in a cauldron. :)

ETA:

I didn't end up dressing up... I was gonna, but then once I did, it felt too silly.

But we did dress CY up, so here he is in his dragon wings.



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Database at work was still down all day, with new update saying they do not have an ETA for return to full functionality. (Today they did restore the ability for existing customers to log into their accounts, though they can't schedule anything. Supposedly online students were supposed to be able to access their class, but I got calls late where people were still getting 403 errors.)

Didn't dress up in costume for work, even as I tried to feel spooky, haha. Wore a dress with bats on it, and put a witch hat on for trick or treaters.

Originally Alex and I planned to go out to the club night - it's one of the usual goth nights, the one that moved venues. But after he picked me up from work we both just felt pretty... meh about the idea. So instead we made dinner, and took turns finding Halloween-ish songs on our phones, and handed out candy to kids trick or treating in the building. Pulled our sign around 8:15, and it'll be a lazy movie night.

Not a *lot* of trick or treaters, but we at least had a few! The neighbor really decorated - a neat wreath and lights, plus light-up pumpkins on end tables that she moved out to either side of her door!

Clearly, the true star of the show was Cy, who was *thrilled* that so many people were knocking on our door specifically to visit him!

Look at this weird dragon in my kitchen:





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Maybe the database being taken down is a Halloween trick...

Surprisingly, having the catastrophic database issue made my hell Saturday LESS awful. (Or at least... awful in different ways.)

Less busy than feared, and basically... nothing we can do. All we can do is take down people's information so that we can reach out to them once the systems are functioning again. But since existing customers can't access their accounts either, it just didn't generate quite as much panic as anticipated.

But also, god, we really can't do anything. Class roster? Can't check that. Registration numbers? Can't see 'em. Individual employee's appointment schedules? Nope. What location is your appointment? I also do not know. Running late? Welp, I can't see what time the appointment was for, which location it's at, which instructor you have, much less look up their contact info to let them know.

And since several locations aren't staffed on Saturday (or even the weekends at all), uh... RIP if that's the center in question.

The most frustrating thing was the utter lack of communication from upper management. We got one message this morning telling us the systems were down, and to use paper enrollment forms and take down information for future followup. They also said they'd pull copies of tomorrow's schedules for our instructors so that we could prepare tomorrow's appointments.

(Then I was asked to send out copies of the paper enrollment forms, because no one else could find them...)

And then we got one more email at the end of the day, saying the system will still be down tomorrow, and they'll pull the schedules sometime tonight to send them out.

That's... too little, too late, since the instructors don't have access to the center emails, and will mostly be there earlier than office staff anyway, so they... still don't have their schedules or the student paperwork.
(Super luckily, my drivers DO, because in anticipation of this weekend sucking, we worked ahead and printed that off yesterday, so barring anyone who wanted to cancel and was unable to, we should have an accurate schedule.)

I'm concerned about my class tomorrow, since I can't view the roster, but hopefully it'll be a small class that we can get sorted out.

While I'm sure that trying to actually address whatever this server-destroying issue is absolutely the #1 priority... it's frustrating that we weren't given any real guidance or the minimum amounts of help (like getting the schedules or rosters to us) that could make center operations go as smoothly as possible under the circumstances.

The last contact was just "welp, gonna be down tomorrow too", so we'll see if that means the whole day, or if it comes up sometime tomorrow. I'm not sure which I hope for - if it stays down, it's another day where we can't do much except write down info and try to keep the centers from completely falling apart. If it does come back up, the class will be much easier, and we don't have so many situations we're helpless to deal with.

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We did go to the corn maze! It was super crowded (night before Halloween, last night of the season). We paid for the fast passes, which cost a fucking arm and a leg, but it was worth it not to wait for literal hours in line.

It was definitely fun, though Alex seemed kind of in a rush to get through, when I would probably have walked slower, ha. (One of the first "rooms" had a collapsing platform that lurched sideways that definitely hurt his knee, so that may have been part of it.)

Not to get all "when I was your age..." but I miss the way it was a decade+ ago. It's gotten a LOT more "commercial" feeling, and while I can't fault them for their popularity, the vibe change is unfortunate. The tickets are a lot more expensive, and include far less, and there's now no way to mix the fluffier maze and autumn festival stuff with the spooky Halloween stuff. I VERY SLIGHTLY regret that we splurged as much as we did on the night, but it WAS fun.

(I also miss the mid-haunt queue area where they used to re-space groups, because it was always showing the WORST classic bad horror, and it was fun!)

There WERE some really neatly designed rooms - one indoor "forest" with a spooky witchcraft vibe, and a deer-girl costume that I loved, and another that used fog and LED strips in a way that made it look like you were wading through something, where you couldn't see the floor. None of the scare actors really stuck out to me the way some previous years have, but we were moving through a bit quicker than I would have liked. Several of them had good costumes, and one of them managed a prolonged low growl that they maintained for much longer than I would think possible!

(They DIDN'T give any kind of "rules/orientation" this year like they have previously, which surprised me. Usually we get a "please don't punch our scarers, there are flashing lights, be aware of suddenly moving footing" warnings thing, but there was nothing this year.)

But I forever love whoever it was who threw an instrumental Silent Hill track in the midst of the Halloween dance party playlist that was playing in the line area. :)

I CAN SEE.

Nov. 3rd, 2012 05:44 pm
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I finally got a new glasses prescription! It's been three or four years, and my vision had deteriorated pretty badly. It was partially the fault of my messed up eyeballs, lol, but a lot of it was just that the glasses I had were in terrible condition.

But now I can see! I'm all kinds of re-amazed by the fact that trees have leaves. They aren't just undifferentiated blurs. And color is vibrant again! (The coating on my previous glasses had discolored so badly it was like looking through permanently frosted glass.) I also really like the new glasses themselves. We're going out tonight, so maybe I'll try and get a picture once I look presentable.

And hopefully the new-glasses headache will pass. :P

I'm bummed Halloween is over. It's one of my favorite holidays, and it always seems to sneak up and whoosh on past without us getting to do much. We did go to a pretty bitchin' haunted house this year. (13th Floor.) And we went out to a few club-related things, as well. But still... it feels like it just suddenly was right on top of us, and now it's over. Alas.

Man, I don't know what more to say. I suck at journalling.

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